Alkemy Words/5 Signs You're in a Situationship - and what to do about it

If you're confused, it's probably not love.

A free guide to help you name the situationship for what it is - and finally let go with clarity. Perfect if you’ve been stuck in uncertainty and are finally ready to choose self-trust over second-guessing.

You’re not overreacting. You’re reacting to inconsistency, emotional crumbs, and mixed signals that keep you in a loop.
This isn’t just dating confusion - it’s nervous system chaos. You deserve clarity. This guide will help you name what’s happening and come home to your truth.

What This Mini-Guide Covers

"5 Signs You’re in a Situationship - and What to Do About It" is a clear, compassionate breakdown to help you:

  • Spot the signs fast

  • Understand why it’s been so hard to walk away

  • Get clear on what you really want

  • Set emotional boundaries and stop settling

  • Gain the confidence to move forward, rooted in your truth

Confusion is a sign your nervous system isn’t safe - not that you’re broken.

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What You’ll Gain

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• A calm, clear lens on what’s been happening • A way out of mental loops and emotional over-functioning • Language to help you honour your needs • The inner shift to stop blaming yourself and start choosing yourself Ready to stop settling? Start here.

From Someone Who’s Been There

When you name the pattern, you reclaim your power.

"I cried reading this. I finally saw the truth l'd been avoiding for months. I was holding on to breadcrumbs, hoping they'd turn into a meal. This gave me the push I needed to walk away - without guilt."

Anonymous – Melbourne, VIC

"This wasn't some fluffy just love yourself' thing. It was calm, clear, and hit right where it hurt - in a good way."

Anonymous – Gold Coast, QLD

“I didn’t expect to cry reading a free guide. But I did. Because it made me feel seen. I finally feel ready to choose myself.”

Anonymous – Byron Bay, NSW

Clarity starts here. It’s time to stop settling for scraps and start choosing self-trust.

This is for you if…

  • You keep replaying mixed signals and wondering what they mean

  • You’ve been stuck in a “not-quite” relationship that’s draining you

  • You feel anxious when they pull away, then relieved when they come back

  • You’ve Googled “is this a situationship?” more than once

  • You want clarity — not more spirals

You don’t have to stay confused.

Most readers have downloaded this and said it was the moment they finally saw the pattern clearly.

Frequently asked questions

You've got questions. We've got answers.

What happens after I download?

You’ll get the guide instantly, and a few thoughtful follow-up emails with support, insight, and tools to help you reclaim your voice and self-trust.

Is this just a red flag checklist?

No. It’s not about surface-level signs — it’s about what those signs feel like in your body and how they mess with your self-trust.
This guide helps you connect the emotional dots in a way that’s calm, honest, and empowering.

Is this only for women?

While it’s written in a feminine tone and speaks to emotional patterns common in women’s relationships, the core insights are helpful to anyone who feels stuck in an unclear or emotionally draining dynamic.

Breadcrumbs aren’t love.